lost nest: home redefined

Approximately 1/3 of people ages 21-29 are either unemployed or severely under employed. As victims of circumstance, we are all making changes to survive. Our priorities are changing along with our lives. This is a blog of how my friends and I are surviving. Many of the comments are meant to reflect the specific moments. They are not meant to reflect an entire generation or to be definitive statements. Please share your stories or thoughts on the comments or submit your own post.

Saturday, January 2, 2010

New Resolutions with New Revelations.

I am listening to my boyfriend and his friend discuss new video games and old moments. We have been working on things. My new resolution is to be confident. Be confident and not worry about things out of my control. So much of a relationship is out of my control. What I can control is my own actions. I can only worry about what I do, how I act, and most importantly how I react.

I came to these resolutions after a gigantic revelation. What sparked the revelation was doesn't matter. The revelation was that I can't control what he does, what other people do... I can only control how I react to things. So now that the conversation has moved on to Star Trek I shall react.

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